• Mitten Moments
  • About Me / The Cause
    • Disclosure/Privacy Policy
  • Cottage Blankets
  • Shop My Favorites

cottage in the mitten

A LIFESTYLE BLOG

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
Home » The Journey

May 2, 2021

The Journey

It’s been a journey. The Journey on how this Cottage in the Mitten came to be.

Since I have a lot of new followers here, I thought I would tell you a little bit about myself and how Cottage in the Mitten came to be.

A Little Background

My husband, otherwise known as Big Al, and I have been married thirty-three years.

Thirty-three! Seems like yesterday.

I am passionate about my faith and family. We are blessed to have three amazing sons, two beautiful daughter-in-laws and three special grands, who make our world go-round! I need an updated family picture! We have grown!

My mother taught me to sew, crochet, and craft when I was a little girl. I’ve always loved crafting and I’vee always loved decorating. As you will see from the story below, God has used my crafting/decor love for a cause near to my heart.

Affiliate links are used in this post. Read my full disclosure here.

Christmas 2011

On the evening of December 20, 2011, we were moving into our newly built home…Our Cottage in the Mitten.

It was an exciting time. Moving into a new home AND preparing for Christmas. We were on a mission, pushing to be in before the holiday. Having a private builder, he was nice enough to let us put our Christmas tree up, in the new house, before we closed on it.

In fact, the anticipation of spending Christmas morning there was beyond exciting for us!

Everything at the new house was ready for Christmas. The Cottage was just waiting for us to celebrate.

Although, what we didn’t know is that there would be no Christmas at the new house, that year.

An Unexpected Outcome

That cold evening, in December, also required a trip to the hospital. One of us had to take our sixteen year old son for a scheduled MRI. After months of many doctor appointments, weight loss and severe headaches, he could stand no more.

I expected we would be home within an hour or two. However, that was not the case.

Sometimes things don’t go as planned, do they?

After the MRI, I was taken alone to the imaging room where they had my son’s doctor on speaker phone. I was told he had a mass on his brain. Quickly, I was instructed to take him directly to a bigger, more specialized hospital where they would be waiting for us.

That evening proved to be the first of many hard, scary days for our family. Especially for our middle son. After all, he was only sixteen.

That day the hustle and bustle of our family, and life as we knew it, came to a screeching halt.

The move didn’t happen and it didn’t matter.

Nothing mattered at that moment except his prognosis and the well being of our other two sons.

I prayed and prayed. Why was the question I asked over and over. I begged for my son to be healed.

His first brain surgery was three days before Christmas. The surgeon resected the tumor. It sounds unbelievable, but he came home from the hospital on Christmas Day.

To this day, it has been the best Christmas gift I have ever been given!

Life & The Journey Moves On

The holiday was over and life moved on…without a diagnois. We were initially told the prognosis looked grim.

After the holidy break our sons went back to school.

That same week, we finally moved into our new house.

Mr. Mitten went back to work and I proceeded to take down the Christmas tree that we never really got to enjoy.

The process took me hours and hours. Everytime I took down a handmade ornament made by one of my kids, I lost it.

Would I have three sons with me next Christmas?

It was the hardest season of my life. I couldn’t eat and I didn’t sleep unless I was right in the room with him. I worried about my other sons, too. Were we giving them the attention they needed? How were they emotionally?

It took three weeks and two different hospitals to figure out what kind of tumor he had and if it was cancer.

Three weeks.

It seemed like a year.

I spent my days praying for a miracle.

The Diagnosis

Finally, we got the news.

The diagnosis was a benign meningioma. These tumors are typically on the outside of the brain, but our son’s tumor was inside. Less than 5% of his age group have this kind of tumor and less than 1% have it in his area of the brain. There are no studies or research because of these low statistics.

Since December 2011, our son has had four brain surgeries, countless tests, numerous MRI’s and most recently radiation. He is now 27, a graphic designer and continues to be monitored every six months.

Our son has an amazing outlook on life, even at the scariest of times. He uses his story for good; to encourage others. He is faithful, not bitter. As parents, we don’t always get to pick and choose what happens to our children. But I truly believe that God uses everything for good.

Yes, even the really hard, difficult things in life.

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” – Romans 8:28

The Blankets Are Born

Like I said above, I am a crafter by nature.

I like to sew, paint furniture, decorate, and crochet. The first few years after my son’s diagnosis, I made blankets out of scrap material. Scraps that I had laying around.

It kept my mind busy.

So, after years of making blankets, it was laid on my heart to use this social media forum to create and sell my blankets, donating a portion of the proceeds to help find a cure for brain tumors. Each blanket I design has one square where the pattern is upside down. That square represents those who are fighting the diagnosis of a brain tumor.

The Journey

Well, that’s my story. The story of the journey to here.

That’s how Cottage in the Mitten came to be. Also, my son created the Mitten logo so it means that much more to me.

And by the way…Christmas has never really looked the same.

It’s better.

Every year, when I pull out the handmade ornaments, I am reminded of my blessings and realize I am a little more thankful than I was the year before. As a family, we walked through the rockiest of waters and we came out stronger, together.

Don’t forget to follow me on Instagram and Pinterest!

Posted In: Blog

Comments

  1. Cindy@CountyRoad407 says

    February 1, 2023 at 12:34 pm

    What a terrifying time. You seem to be strong and your faith even stronger. That is an inspiration! And what a beautiful testimony for your son. I know as a mom, you never ever ever want anything like that to happen but the love, grace and mercy shown by the Lord and by y’all are amazing. So glad I got to read this!

    Reply
    • cottageinthemitten@gmail.com says

      February 2, 2023 at 2:42 pm

      Thank you so much for reading our journey. My son always says if he could change things he wouldn’t because it has made him who he is. He is so strong and we are a stronger family for walking through it together. He’s a big God and uses all things for good!

      Reply

Trackbacks

  1. Mitten Moments - cottage in the mitten says:
    October 16, 2021 at 2:20 pm

    […] It’s been a couple of weeks since I finished my last one. If you are new here and don’t know why I make blankets, you can check out The Journey. […]

    Reply
  2. My Simple & Traditional Holiday Home Tour - cottage in the mitten says:
    December 3, 2021 at 12:34 pm

    […] wife, mom and mimi who loves color. I make blankets for a cause and you can read all about that in The Journey. Home decor, sewing, reading and painting furniture are a few of my favorite […]

    Reply
  3. The Best In 2021-A Cottage Review - cottage in the mitten says:
    December 31, 2021 at 11:25 pm

    […] The cause…I donate a portion of each blanket to help find a cure for brain tumors. I started The Journey because my middle son has battled a benign brain tumor for ten years. He has had four brain […]

    Reply
  4. Mitten Moments - cottage in the mitten says:
    January 22, 2022 at 7:05 pm

    […] graphic designing son. I’m thinking about selling them and donating part of the proceeds to the cause. What do you […]

    Reply
  5. How To Build An Easy Stone Birdhouse - cottage in the mitten says:
    February 8, 2022 at 1:20 am

    […] Do you love a good family day? You can read a little bit about my family in my The Journey. […]

    Reply
  6. The Prettiest Purple Cottage Blanket Wrapped With Love - cottage in the mitten says:
    March 8, 2022 at 1:26 pm

    […] you have read my story, The Journey, then you know I started this blog because I felt that God has guided me into making blankets, […]

    Reply
  7. How To Create A Simple Blue & Pink Easter Table - cottage in the mitten says:
    March 10, 2022 at 11:32 am

    […] My name is Kim and I am a native Michigander. I love all things home decor, a pretty table, DIY, sewing, a hot cup of tea and spending time with my precious family! I also make blankets for a cause hoping to help find a cure for brain tumors. You can read all about that in The Journey. […]

    Reply
  8. A Bright Cottage in the Mitten Summer Patio - cottage in the mitten says:
    June 13, 2022 at 6:33 am

    […] If you are joining me here from my friend Brendt from She Gave It A Go, please know I am so glad you are here! Didn’t Brendt share the prettiest entry way and living room?! If Cottage in the Mitten is new to you, my name is Kim. Living in Michigan, I am lucky enough to experience all four seasons. I am a mom to three grown sons, two beautiful DIL’s, Mimi to three precious granddaughters and wife to Big Al. I love home decor, lots of color, hot tea, Jesus and I make Cottage blankets for a cause. My hope is to help find a cure for brain tumors. You can read all about my cause in The Journey. […]

    Reply
  9. Seven Amazing Ways To Have A Memorable Summer - cottage in the mitten says:
    June 21, 2022 at 6:56 am

    […] Big Al and I recently headed to the park after work. I filled the basket with simple snacks, beverages, some colorful melamine plates, and of course, some fresh flowers. I make blankets for a cause and I used one of the blanket tops that I never finished as our table cloth. If you don’t know about my cause you can read all about it in The Journey. […]

    Reply
  10. Christmas in July - My Festive Cottage Home - cottage in the mitten says:
    July 25, 2022 at 4:34 am

    […] lived in the Mitten my whole life. I love sharing home decor, a pretty table setting, family and my blankets that I make for a cause. Here’s one of my favorite Christmas blankets I made last year. I am a traditional girl when […]

    Reply
  11. How To Make The Best Blueberry Buckle - cottage in the mitten says:
    August 9, 2022 at 6:40 am

    […] For those of you who are new, welcome to my Cottage in the Mitten! I am a native Michigander. I’m proud to be a wife to Big Al, a mom to three handsome sons, two beautiful daughter-in-laws, and Mimi to three precious grands. I love DIY, home décor, all things pretty, community with others, and sewing. You can read all about how I started this fun blogging journey here. […]

    Reply
  12. How To Make An Easy Fall Lantern - cottage in the mitten says:
    August 30, 2022 at 7:07 am

    […] this is your first time here, I’m Kim! I love sharing decor, my blankets, my weekly Mitten Moments, and life along the way. I’d love for you to join me […]

    Reply
  13. How To Make A Decoupage Pumpkin With Napkins - cottage in the mitten says:
    September 6, 2022 at 6:07 am

    […] three beautiful grands and wife to Big Al. If this is your first time here, I love sharing decor, my blankets, my weekly Mitten Moments, and life along the way. I’d love for you to join me […]

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Recipe Rating




About Me


Hi! I’m Kim!

Welcome to my Cottage in the Mitten! I am a native Michigander. I am a wife, mom and mimi. I love DIY, home decor, all things pretty, community with others, and sewing. I make blankets for a cause, hoping to help find a cure for brain tumors. I hope you love my site and pray it inspires you.

READ MORE

Recent Posts

  • The Best Home Decor Books to Buy Now
  • A Cheerful & Colorful Easy Cottage Home Tour
  • Mitten Moments
  • How to Set an Easter Table with Bright Colors
  • Mitten Moments

Categories

  • Blog
  • Mitten Moments

Copyright © 2023 cottage in the mitten · Theme by 17th Avenue